Working in the Residential Department at Stewart Home & School is a unique and rewarding experience, filled with both challenges and deeply meaningful moments. Houseparents makeup the majority of the department as they play a crucial role in nurturing a home-like environment for students, offering stability, care, and personal attention to help them thrive.
A typical day for a houseparent begins early. After getting the students up and ready for the day, houseparents help them with personal care routines, which might include assistance with dressing, hygiene, and organizing materials for school. Some students may need more guidance, while others are more independent, so patience, empathy, and an ability to adapt to each student’s needs are essential. Woodland houseparent, Becky Marstella, said she looks forward to seeing the beautiful faces of not only her Woodland girls, but all students on campus. “Every day is different and I get to be a part of the student’s life and make it run as smoothly as it possibly can!”
One of the most important roles in the Residential Department is creating a sense of family and belonging within the residence. Stewart Home & School students live in resident halls, and houseparents are key figures in maintaining the structure and warmth of these living environments. They are often seen as parental figures, providing emotional support, resolving conflicts, and celebrating the achievements and milestones of the students. Mealtime is a special time where houseparents encourage social interaction, assist students in practicing table manners, and foster conversation.
The emotional rewards of being a houseparent are immense. Residential employee, Debra Atzinger said she pursued a career as a SH&S houseparent because she wanted to “give back, to serve, and to extend hope, love, and kindness.”
Manager of Residential services, Tammy Blau, said that students have taught her what “unconditional love and acceptance is.” In her 40 year career at Stewart Home, she has watched students grow in confidence, overcome obstacles, and be happy in all they do.
Houseparents at Stewart Home often speak of the profound impact the role has on their own lives. Being a caregiver and mentor to students with intellectual disabilities offers deep personal growth and a unique perspective on the value of patience, kindness, and perseverance. In the end, the positions in the Residential Department are ones of love, dedication, and immense satisfaction. While they demand resilience and emotional strength, they offer the unmatched reward of knowing that you’ve made a significant difference in others’ lives.
Thank you Residential Department for all you do!